Learning from the past.

So I said I was looking for what I could learn from this most recent difficult situation.

And I think I have learned at least one thing. When a man says they don't want a serious relationship - take them at their word. They don't. No matter what they say about your future - what you should do (take them to Food 101), where you should go (UGA game). If a man says they don't want a relationship - they don't. You can't convince them. You can't love them into it. It won't happen, no matter what good intentions you have or what good vibes you feel.

I have also learned that memory is like a lingering lightning strike. I went to Two Urban Licks with my friend who is leaving tomorrow and all I could think about is the exbf. (it was one of our first dates) And then I heard a song that reminded me of the exbf. Ugh.

But don't fear, I'm doing OK.

Take care, dear reader - we'll avoid lightning together.